Tuesday, February 15, 2011

The trials of trying to have a social life.

So I've been single for about 2 weeks now. My ex immediatly started to have friends the day after we broke up, while I, kept the number of friends the same. Soon, the once routine phone calls ended. It seemed that she was too busy to even text me. After days of fighting and complaining about this fact, I finally came to the fact that I need to leave her alone and do something else.
At first, I started asking everyone if they could hang out. I started to get a full list and everything was good. But as the week progressed, all of potential hang outs either flaked or had to cancel. In the end I had to spend time with my ex, a day that brought more trouble than help.
The next week, I made a friend who went to Buda. She was recently going through a break up just like me and I thought it would be nice if I saw her and comforted her and probably go somewhere with her. The plan was I hangout with her over Friday night and spend the night over. Sounded like a good plan. However something terribly bad happened. While I was texting my ex in class, the teacher saw my phone and picked it up. That phone was the life line to all my friends and ability to escape the house. Without it, all of my plans imploded. So now I'm just getting alot of, "hey let's hang out" and having to decline them just because I don't have a phone. It sucks.

Relationships

So lately I have been in  an emotional rollercoaster. It's all because of a little high school relationship problems. If there is a lesson i learned this week, that is you will never ever be with your first love forever. Unless you're ms. Young. I never ever want to date again! I will promise myself to make sure no other woman breaks my heart like she did. Let me tell you something about relationships, don't try. The more you try, the harder the heartbreak. Also, if you have fallen in love for the first time, lower your exceptions. do not think you will marry her or have children with her or grow old together.
    But if you really need help than follow this advice. When approaching a woman, be bold, be brave, have confidence. When engaging in talking, don't be nervous. If you feel uneasy, she'll feel uneasy. Also, don't waste that much money on her at first. Also, be a gentlemen. No chick will think of as a great if you treat her badly. If you merely open doors for her, she will only like you more and will get you close together.